When Prayer Feels Stale

May 31, 2026

Pastor Patrick presented today's message, "When Prayer Feels Stale." A video of today's message is here on YouTube. It may help to be familiar with the message but that is not required to enjoy the thoughts below.

Today's message was the wrap-up to a series on the Lord's Prayer.

First, please see For Thine Is the Kingdom (Doxology) from 2021.

And before I forget... If you weren't present for today's message or haven't watched the video... You need to hear/watch the prayer Patrick prayed at the end of today's message as an example of following the model of the Lord's Prayer. I bet you haven't heard one quite like it lately. See timestamps 21:00 through 26:51 on the video (link above).

Modelling how to live a life of faith happens throughout both testaments. Check out this essay: Teach and Model Faith on BibleHub.com.


Bonus


Every Day is a Second Chance

As Joy so aptly put it, "Every day is a second chance," in the movie A Joyous Christmas. This would have been a good Bonus to include with last week's message on temptation. When you do go over the cliff, there can be plenty of chances for making things right. In fact, each new day brings a chance to make things right. To be renewed.

Lamentations 3:22-23, "Through the Lord's mercies we are not consumed, because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness."

Micah 7:18-19, "Who is a God like You, pardoning iniquity and passing over the transgression of the remnant of His heritage? He does not retain His anger forever, because He delights in mercy. He will again have compassion on us, and will subdue our iniquities. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea."

Psalm 51:10, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me."

Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope."

In fact, every moment of your life is a second chance.

And as you embark on a second chance path, remember Psalm 119:105, "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path."


Bonus2


"The Christmas Ring"s (two movies)

There are actually two Christmas movies with the same title: The Christmas Ring.

One is based on #1 New York Times Bestselling novelist Karen Kingsbury's recent novel and was produced in 2025. Here's a description from moviefone: "At a 'Christmas in July' sale, military widow Vanessa Mayfield crosses paths with antiques dealer Ben Miller. As Ben works in Vanessa's hometown, their friendship begins to grow into something more. But trouble brews when Ben's father unknowingly acquires a box of antiques containing Vanessa's missing heirloom Christmas ring - a priceless piece of her family's past [her great-grandfather found it on D-Day in 1944]. Planning to sell it, he has no idea of its true meaning. It will take a Christmas miracle for love, family, and the ring to come together." It got a 97% on Rotten Tomatoes' Popcornmeter. It's relatively heavy with religious and patriotic references. Trailer.

The second by the same name was distributed in 2020 by Hallmark Mystery. From JustWatch: "A reporter searches for the love story behind an antique engagement ring. With the help of the ring's owner's grandson, they learn the legacy his grandparents left behind." The ring was stamped "1948." And the search actually mends some relationships within the 1948 couple's descendants. Trailer.

Index to Weekly Essays

Questions and comments are welcome: Torah@JF2.com. See CQ&A.

Most recent first:

5/31/26: When Prayer Feels Stale
5/24/26: How To Deal With Temptation
5/17/26: This is Destroying Your Life
5/10/26: When You Can't Fix Things
5/3/26: Prayer
4/26/26: Why is Surrender Hard
4/19/26: Are You Praying Wrong?
4/12/26: The Holy Spirit Explained
4/5/26: This Changes Everything
3/29/26: The Jesus We Skip
3/22/26: How To Argue
3/15/26: The Dangerous Disconnect
3/8/26: How To Get Over Yourself
3/1/26: How To Trust God
2/22/26: Make A Lasting Impact
2/15/26: You Can't Follow Both
2/8/26: Why You're Not Happy
2/1/26: How to Make Better Decisions
1/25/26: Surface Faith vs Real Faith
1/18/26: Let Go and Forgive
1/11/26: Breaking The Cycle
1/4/26: The Reason You're Stuck
12/28/25: Home for the Holidays
12/21/25: Why You're Anxious
12/14/25: The Father You Need
12/7/25: Let God be the Hero
11/30/25: Don't Carry It Anymore
11/23/25: The Power of 'Yet'
11/16/25: When God Is Silent
11/9/25: When God Makes No Sense
10/12/25: D: How To Stand Firm
10/5/25: D: Reflecting God's Glory
9/28/25: D: The Price of Pride
9/21/25: D: Live Courageously
9/14/25: D: Faith In A Hostile World
9/7/25: Daniel: Don't Compromise
8/31/25: Climb Out of Shame
8/24/25: The Church I See
8/17/25: Let God Prune
8/10/25: Community Isn't Enough
8/3/25: You Asked: Find True Rest
7/27/25: You Asked: Contentment
7/20/25: You Asked: Judging
7/13/25: You Asked: Trust the Bible
7/6/25: You Asked: Hope and a Future
6/29/25: You Asked: Just Be Perfect
6/22/25: You Asked: Hate Your Family?
6/15/25: You Asked: Remove Anxiety
6/8/25: You Asked: Ask, Seek, Knock
6/1/25: You Asked: Faith vs Works
5/25/25: You Asked For It: Intro
5/18/25: Relationships Are Everything
5/11/25: Biblical Finance
5/4/25: What Do You Prioritize?
4/27/25: Stop Negative Thoughts
4/20/25: Find New Life
4/13/25: SOZO: Now What?
4/6/25: SOZO: Trust the Process
3/30/25: Why Doesn't God Always Heal
3/23/25: SOZO: Healing is a Choice
3/16/25: SOZO: True Freedom
3/9/25: SOZO: Free from Sin
3/2/25: SOZO: Freedom
2/23/25: SOZO: Saved
2/16/25: SOZO: Finding Wholeness
2/9/25: Mouth: Bragging
2/2/25: Mouth: Gossip
1/26/25: Mouth: Lying
1/19/25: Mouth: Cynicism/Faith
1/12/25: Mouth: Criticizing
1/5/25: Mouth: Complaining
12/29/24: Home for the Holidays
12/22/24: Love With Action
12/15/24: Find True Joy
12/8/24: Unwrap the Gift of Peace
12/1/24: Hope in the Darkness
11/24/24: Trust in the Waiting
11/17/24: Gal.: Carry Others' Burdens
11/10/24: Gal.: Battle Within Us
11/3/24: Gal.: Live in Freedom
10/27/24: Gal.: Embracing Our Identity
10/20/24: Gal.: Purpose of the Law
10/13/24: Galatians: Live by Faith
10/6/24: Galatians: Justified by Faith
9/29/24: Galatians: Jesus Did It All
9/22/24: Holy Spirit: Filled/Permeates
9/15/24: Holy Spirit: Power
9/8/24: Holy Spirit: Intro
9/1/24: Process of Becoming
8/25/24: Build a Gathering
8/18/24: Get Planted
8/11/24: Meta: Who Do You Say I Am?
8/4/24: Meta: Living Water
7/28/24: Meta: Be Pruned and Abide
7/21/24: Meta: GPS ("the Way")
7/14/24: Meta: Knowledge to Action?
7/7/24: Meta: Resurrection & the Life
6/30/24: Metaphors: Good Shepherd
6/23/24: Metaphors: I am the Door
6/16/24: Metaphors: Light of the World
6/9/24: Metaphors: Bread of Life
6/2/24: Metaphors: Introduction
5/26/24: Living Together: Conflict
5/19/24: Living Together: Generations
5/12/24: Living Together: Family
5/5/24: Living Together: Marriage
4/28/24: That Hurt: You (Guilt)
4/21/24: That Hurt: God's People
4/14/24: That Hurt: Acts of God
4/7/24: That Hurt: Forgiveness
3/31/24: He Is Risen Indeed!
3/24/24: BMN: Relationships
3/17/24: BMN: Work
3/10/24: BMN: Emotions
3/3/24: BMN: Mental Health
2/25/24: BMN: Financial Freedom
2/18/24: Be Made New: Stress
2/11/24: Be Made New: Spiritually
2/4/24: Be Made New: Truth
1/28/24: Who are You Following?
1/21/24: Where Are You Going?
1/14/24: Change Your Direction
1/7/24: Finding God's Path
12/31/23: Home 4the Holidays
12/24/23: Christmas Eve
12/17/23: Building Families
12/10/23: Make Room
12/3/23: Ephesians #13
11/26/23: Ephesians #12
11/19/23: Ephesians #11
11/12/23: Ephesians #10
11/5/23: Ephesians #9
10/29/23: Ephesians #8
10/22/23: Ephesians #7
10/15/23: Ephesians #6
10/8/23: Ephesians #5
10/1/23: Ephesians #4
9/24/23: Ephesians #3
9/17/23: Ephesians #2
9/10/23: Ephesians #1
9/3/23: What's Your Identity?
8/27/23: Get Rid of Bitterness
8/20/23: Justice vs Revenge
8/13/23: Don't Drink the Poison
8/6/23: All Happens for a Reason
7/30/23: God Helps Those...
7/23/23: What He Can Handle
7/16/23: Treasure/Money
7/9/23: Following JC Makes Life Easier
7/2/23: Time Heals All Wounds
6/25/23: This Too Shall Pass
6/18/23: Forgive and Forget
6/11/23: Don't Follow Your Heart
6/4/23: Misquoted
5/28/23: More Meals, Less Messages
5/21/23: Grace and Truth
5/14/23: Community/Communion
5/7/23: Circles > Rows
4/30/23: Old School: 4
4/23/23: Old School: 3
4/16/23: Old School: 2
4/9/23: Old School: 1
4/2/23: Life You've Wanted: 9
3/26/23: Life You've Wanted: 8
3/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 7
3/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 6
3/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 5
2/26/23: Life You've Wanted: 4
2/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 3
2/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 2
2/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 1
1/29/23: Life You've Wanted: Intro
1/22/23: Detox #3
1/15/23: Detox #2
1/8/23: Detox #1
1/1/23: New Year's Day
12/25/22: Bonus: Ten Commandments
12/18/22: The Gift: 3
12/11/22: The Gift: 2
12/4/22: The Gift: 1
11/27/22: Book of James: 8
11/20/22: Book of James: 7
11/13/22: Book of James: 6
11/6/22: Book of James: 5
10/30/22: Book of James: 4
10/23/22: Book of James: 3
10/16/22: Book of James: 2
10/9/22: Book of James: 1
10/2/22: Re-Assembly Required: 4
9/25/22: Re-Assembly Required: 3
9/18/22: Re-Assembly Required: 2
9/11/22: Re-Assembly Required: 1
9/4/22: Vision Sunday
8/28/22: Outdoors/Baptisms
8/21/22: Temple: 3
8/14/22: Temple: 2
8/7/22: Temple: 1
7/31/22: Extraordinary: 10
7/24/22: Extraordinary: 9
7/17/22: Extraordinary: 8
7/10/22: Extraordinary: 7
7/3/22: Extraordinary: 6
6/26/22: Extraordinary: 5
6/19/22: Extraordinary: 4
6/12/22: Extraordinary: 3
6/5/22: Extraordinary: 2
5/29/22: Extraordinary: 1
5/22/22: Mindset
5/15/22: Heart & Soul: 5 (Contribute)
5/8/22: Heart & Soul: 4 (Growth)
5/8/22: Mothers Day, Louisiana
5/1/22: Heart & Soul: 3 (Connection)
4/24/22: Heart & Soul: 2 (Worship)
4/17/22: Heart & Soul: 1
4/13/22: Our Passover Seder
4/10/22: Limitless: Sozo'd So That
4/3/22: Limitless: 9 Wholeness
3/27/22: Limitless: 8 Healed
3/20/22: Limitless: 7 Healed
3/13/22: Limitless: 6 Healed
3/6/22: Limitless: 5 Freed
2/27/22: Limitless: 4 Freed
2/20/22: Limitless: 3 Freed
2/13/22: Limitless: 2 Saved
2/6/22: Limitless: 1 Sozo
1/30/22: Chasing Carrots: 4
1/23/22: Chasing Carrots: 3
1/16/22: Chasing Carrots: 2
1/9/22: Chasing Carrots: 1
1/2/22: Home 4the Holidays: 2
12/26/21: Home 4the Holidays: 1
12/19/21: Christmas Stories: 3
12/12/21: Christmas Stories: 2
12/5/21: Christmas Stories: 1
11/28/21: Holy Spirit: Gifts
11/21/21: Holy Spirit: Fruit
11/14/21: Holy Spirit: Filled
11/7/21: Holy Spirit: Power
10/31/21: Holy Spirit: Intro
10/24/21: Answers to Prayer
10/17/21: For Thine Is the Kingdom
10/10/21: Deliver Us from Evil
10/3/21: Forgive Us Our Sins
9/26/21: Daily Bread
9/19/21: Your Will Be Done
9/12/21: Our Father
9/5/21: The Unforgivable Sin
9/5/21: OMG: No Recording
8/29/21: Parenting
8/22/21: Fighting Fair
8/15/21: Money Management
8/8/21: Time Management