Home for the Holidays

December 28, 2025

Today was "Home for the Holidays" meaning there was no service today. So, there is no essay about the message, but I do get to write about whatever I want under the Bonuses...


Bonus


Oy to the World (movie)



This Bonus starts out by mentioning a fun little movie I watched this week. It's a Hallmark Christmas movie (no shocker there) that does have a different twist. It's about half Jewish, too. The plot rests on a few things. 1. Christmas Eve and the last day of Hanukkah happen to be on the same day (a rare event that does happen now and then). 2. the local synagogue has had some pipes burst and is currently not occupiable so the church across the street offers to share their building. And 3. two high school rivals that reunite these several years later over the synagogue crisis and have to put a very ecumenical kids choir together for the joint Christmas-Eve-Hanukkah service.

About the movie: Oy to the World.

A couple things you need to know. "Oy" is a Yiddish expression that shows dismay or chagrin. Its longer version is "oy vey" (oi-vay) and means basically the same thing. It's a bit like saying "Oh my" when something bad happens.

Another interesting thing to understand is that the synagogue's name in the movie is Temple Beth Am. This means roughly "House (Beth) of [all] the People (Am)" or "House of the Nations (Am)." It has an extended meaning of a people who have congregated together.

The bigger point is, I think, that Christianity and Judaism overlap much more than they differ. There's good reason for the term Judeo-Christian Values. The two religions share nearly all Biblical values. And speaking of the Bible, it's the only pair of religions in the world that actually share a sacred text, the Old Testament. Furthermore, much of Christianity's New Testament reflects or even quotes the Old Testament. For instance, many Christians are surprised when they learn that "Love your neighbor as yourself" is from the Old Testament, way back in Leviticus 19:18.

Here's Dennis Prager's shot at describing Judeo-Christian Values.


Bonus2


Handling 2026

At our last Family Dinner of 2026, we focused on what handles to hold onto into the coming year when we'll each be faced with who-knows-what. Whatever we're faced with, good, bad, or indifferent, you can count on your faith in God to get you through. So, at our Family Dinner, we reviewed the Judeo-Christian Values mentioned in the Bonus above and also reviewed the Ten Commandments. Staying grounded and well-versed with what's important is the key.

Talking about handling whatever comes at us was particularly relevant for our family this week as we say goodbye to the boys that have been with us for several years now. They're rejoining their older siblings in the next few days. We sent them on their way with copies of the four Dennis Prager "The Rational Bible" series books currently available (Genesis, Exodus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy).

And for good measure, here is 25 Uplifting New Year's Christian Quotes to Welcome 2026.




Bonus3


The Last Two Christmas Movies for 2025

Here are the last two Christmas movies I'll talk about this year. No promises starting in January 2026...

"A Timeless Christmas" (IMDB entry), based on Alexis Stanton's book by the same title, is a fun story of a Christmas clock that sends 1903 Charles Whitley to his home in 2020. He goes from pondering what the future might bring to actually experiencing that future. Guess what, he had little idea! On the other hand, Megan is in the future where Charles lands where and when she's reenacting the past at the Whitley Mansion Museum. "Almost any journey can have a happy ending if you're with someone you love."

"Christmas at the Plaza" (Hallmark entry). Here's the synopsis: "With Christmas approaching in New York City, Jessica, an archival historian enmeshed in a declining romantic relationship, is hired to create an exhibition honoring the history of Christmas at The Plaza Hotel. There, she meets Nick, a handsome decorator who’s been commissioned to deck out the iconic landmark. When they’re paired together to prepare the exhibition, they wind up enjoying a host of holiday traditions together and find themselves falling for each other. Tensions soon rise as Jessica must figure out her romantic priorities and decide with whom she’ll ultimately spend Christmas at The Plaza."

The Plaza is a hotel in New York City where "nothing unimportant ever happens." This movie explores themes like: am I doing something important?, houses are blank canvases for Christmas, roasted chestnuts, and where's the ornament from 1969?! It's not just the traditions; it's the people you do them with. And sometimes, grand gestures, white star and all, can make up for a load of mistakes.

Index to Weekly Essays

Questions and comments are welcome: Torah@JF2.com. See CQ&A.

Most recent first:

3/1/26: How To Trust God
2/22/26: Make A Lasting Impact
2/15/26: You Can't Follow Both
2/8/26: Why You're Not Happy
2/1/26: How to Make Better Decisions
1/25/26: Surface Faith vs Real Faith
1/18/26: Let Go and Forgive
1/11/26: Breaking The Cycle
1/4/26: The Reason You're Stuck
12/28/25: Home for the Holidays
12/21/25: Why You're Anxious
12/14/25: The Father You Need
12/7/25: Let God be the Hero
11/30/25: Don't Carry It Anymore
11/23/25: The Power of 'Yet'
11/16/25: When God Is Silent
11/9/25: When God Makes No Sense
10/12/25: D: How To Stand Firm
10/5/25: D: Reflecting God's Glory
9/28/25: D: The Price of Pride
9/21/25: D: Live Courageously
9/14/25: D: Faith In A Hostile World
9/7/25: Daniel: Don't Compromise
8/31/25: Climb Out of Shame
8/24/25: The Church I See
8/17/25: Let God Prune
8/10/25: Community Isn't Enough
8/3/25: You Asked: Find True Rest
7/27/25: You Asked: Contentment
7/20/25: You Asked: Judging
7/13/25: You Asked: Trust the Bible
7/6/25: You Asked: Hope and a Future
6/29/25: You Asked: Just Be Perfect
6/22/25: You Asked: Hate Your Family?
6/15/25: You Asked: Remove Anxiety
6/8/25: You Asked: Ask, Seek, Knock
6/1/25: You Asked: Faith vs Works
5/25/25: You Asked For It: Intro
5/18/25: Relationships Are Everything
5/11/25: Biblical Finance
5/4/25: What Do You Prioritize?
4/27/25: Stop Negative Thoughts
4/20/25: Find New Life
4/13/25: SOZO: Now What?
4/6/25: SOZO: Trust the Process
3/30/25: Why Doesn't God Always Heal
3/23/25: SOZO: Healing is a Choice
3/16/25: SOZO: True Freedom
3/9/25: SOZO: Free from Sin
3/2/25: SOZO: Freedom
2/23/25: SOZO: Saved
2/16/25: SOZO: Finding Wholeness
2/9/25: Mouth: Bragging
2/2/25: Mouth: Gossip
1/26/25: Mouth: Lying
1/19/25: Mouth: Cynicism/Faith
1/12/25: Mouth: Criticizing
1/5/25: Mouth: Complaining
12/29/24: Home for the Holidays
12/22/24: Love With Action
12/15/24: Find True Joy
12/8/24: Unwrap the Gift of Peace
12/1/24: Hope in the Darkness
11/24/24: Trust in the Waiting
11/17/24: Gal.: Carry Others' Burdens
11/10/24: Gal.: Battle Within Us
11/3/24: Gal.: Live in Freedom
10/27/24: Gal.: Embracing Our Identity
10/20/24: Gal.: Purpose of the Law
10/13/24: Galatians: Live by Faith
10/6/24: Galatians: Justified by Faith
9/29/24: Galatians: Jesus Did It All
9/22/24: Holy Spirit: Filled/Permeates
9/15/24: Holy Spirit: Power
9/8/24: Holy Spirit: Intro
9/1/24: Process of Becoming
8/25/24: Build a Gathering
8/18/24: Get Planted
8/11/24: Meta: Who Do You Say I Am?
8/4/24: Meta: Living Water
7/28/24: Meta: Be Pruned and Abide
7/21/24: Meta: GPS ("the Way")
7/14/24: Meta: Knowledge to Action?
7/7/24: Meta: Resurrection & the Life
6/30/24: Metaphors: Good Shepherd
6/23/24: Metaphors: I am the Door
6/16/24: Metaphors: Light of the World
6/9/24: Metaphors: Bread of Life
6/2/24: Metaphors: Introduction
5/26/24: Living Together: Conflict
5/19/24: Living Together: Generations
5/12/24: Living Together: Family
5/5/24: Living Together: Marriage
4/28/24: That Hurt: You (Guilt)
4/21/24: That Hurt: God's People
4/14/24: That Hurt: Acts of God
4/7/24: That Hurt: Forgiveness
3/31/24: He Is Risen Indeed!
3/24/24: BMN: Relationships
3/17/24: BMN: Work
3/10/24: BMN: Emotions
3/3/24: BMN: Mental Health
2/25/24: BMN: Financial Freedom
2/18/24: Be Made New: Stress
2/11/24: Be Made New: Spiritually
2/4/24: Be Made New: Truth
1/28/24: Who are You Following?
1/21/24: Where Are You Going?
1/14/24: Change Your Direction
1/7/24: Finding God's Path
12/31/23: Home 4the Holidays
12/24/23: Christmas Eve
12/17/23: Building Families
12/10/23: Make Room
12/3/23: Ephesians #13
11/26/23: Ephesians #12
11/19/23: Ephesians #11
11/12/23: Ephesians #10
11/5/23: Ephesians #9
10/29/23: Ephesians #8
10/22/23: Ephesians #7
10/15/23: Ephesians #6
10/8/23: Ephesians #5
10/1/23: Ephesians #4
9/24/23: Ephesians #3
9/17/23: Ephesians #2
9/10/23: Ephesians #1
9/3/23: What's Your Identity?
8/27/23: Get Rid of Bitterness
8/20/23: Justice vs Revenge
8/13/23: Don't Drink the Poison
8/6/23: All Happens for a Reason
7/30/23: God Helps Those...
7/23/23: What He Can Handle
7/16/23: Treasure/Money
7/9/23: Following JC Makes Life Easier
7/2/23: Time Heals All Wounds
6/25/23: This Too Shall Pass
6/18/23: Forgive and Forget
6/11/23: Don't Follow Your Heart
6/4/23: Misquoted
5/28/23: More Meals, Less Messages
5/21/23: Grace and Truth
5/14/23: Community/Communion
5/7/23: Circles > Rows
4/30/23: Old School: 4
4/23/23: Old School: 3
4/16/23: Old School: 2
4/9/23: Old School: 1
4/2/23: Life You've Wanted: 9
3/26/23: Life You've Wanted: 8
3/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 7
3/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 6
3/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 5
2/26/23: Life You've Wanted: 4
2/19/23: Life You've Wanted: 3
2/12/23: Life You've Wanted: 2
2/5/23: Life You've Wanted: 1
1/29/23: Life You've Wanted: Intro
1/22/23: Detox #3
1/15/23: Detox #2
1/8/23: Detox #1
1/1/23: New Year's Day
12/25/22: Bonus: Ten Commandments
12/18/22: The Gift: 3
12/11/22: The Gift: 2
12/4/22: The Gift: 1
11/27/22: Book of James: 8
11/20/22: Book of James: 7
11/13/22: Book of James: 6
11/6/22: Book of James: 5
10/30/22: Book of James: 4
10/23/22: Book of James: 3
10/16/22: Book of James: 2
10/9/22: Book of James: 1
10/2/22: Re-Assembly Required: 4
9/25/22: Re-Assembly Required: 3
9/18/22: Re-Assembly Required: 2
9/11/22: Re-Assembly Required: 1
9/4/22: Vision Sunday
8/28/22: Outdoors/Baptisms
8/21/22: Temple: 3
8/14/22: Temple: 2
8/7/22: Temple: 1
7/31/22: Extraordinary: 10
7/24/22: Extraordinary: 9
7/17/22: Extraordinary: 8
7/10/22: Extraordinary: 7
7/3/22: Extraordinary: 6
6/26/22: Extraordinary: 5
6/19/22: Extraordinary: 4
6/12/22: Extraordinary: 3
6/5/22: Extraordinary: 2
5/29/22: Extraordinary: 1
5/22/22: Mindset
5/15/22: Heart & Soul: 5 (Contribute)
5/8/22: Heart & Soul: 4 (Growth)
5/8/22: Mothers Day, Louisiana
5/1/22: Heart & Soul: 3 (Connection)
4/24/22: Heart & Soul: 2 (Worship)
4/17/22: Heart & Soul: 1
4/13/22: Our Passover Seder
4/10/22: Limitless: Sozo'd So That
4/3/22: Limitless: 9 Wholeness
3/27/22: Limitless: 8 Healed
3/20/22: Limitless: 7 Healed
3/13/22: Limitless: 6 Healed
3/6/22: Limitless: 5 Freed
2/27/22: Limitless: 4 Freed
2/20/22: Limitless: 3 Freed
2/13/22: Limitless: 2 Saved
2/6/22: Limitless: 1 Sozo
1/30/22: Chasing Carrots: 4
1/23/22: Chasing Carrots: 3
1/16/22: Chasing Carrots: 2
1/9/22: Chasing Carrots: 1
1/2/22: Home 4the Holidays: 2
12/26/21: Home 4the Holidays: 1
12/19/21: Christmas Stories: 3
12/12/21: Christmas Stories: 2
12/5/21: Christmas Stories: 1
11/28/21: Holy Spirit: Gifts
11/21/21: Holy Spirit: Fruit
11/14/21: Holy Spirit: Filled
11/7/21: Holy Spirit: Power
10/31/21: Holy Spirit: Intro
10/24/21: Answers to Prayer
10/17/21: For Thine Is the Kingdom
10/10/21: Deliver Us from Evil
10/3/21: Forgive Us Our Sins
9/26/21: Daily Bread
9/19/21: Your Will Be Done
9/12/21: Our Father
9/5/21: The Unforgivable Sin
9/5/21: OMG: No Recording
8/29/21: Parenting
8/22/21: Fighting Fair
8/15/21: Money Management
8/8/21: Time Management